Does MAID mean I want to die?

Not at all. MAID is a process that allows someone who is going to die, to control some of the elements of their death.

If I love them, shouldn’t I be able to care for them on my own?

No one can work 24 hours a day on-going for ever. Everyone needs support. Are you being harder on yourself than you would be on your own friends and family? Sleep is important, eating well is important, and taking care of ourselves makes us stronger to care for others.

My loved one isn’t eating or drinking, should I encourage them to eat and drink?

As life comes to an end, so does our need for food and water. Your loved one will eat and drink as they chose, just as they did near the beginning of their life. Sometimes forcing people to eat or drink when they are nearing the end of life can actually be more dangerous for them. Not having the energy or coordination to swallow can ultimately cause infection and more discomfort.

Let’s explore death and dying together.